It is one of the greatest challenges in life to be with another person. Again and again, we trigger reactions in one another. Nobody can address Your unwanted, vulnerable sides as Your partner. A couple's counseling or therapy will help You to gain more understanding and develop a deeper relationship and a better communication.
Living in a fulfilling partnership requires awareness, courage and honesty. Relationship is work. And this work is very rewarding!
As Nietzsche said: "One is always wrong. But with two, the truth begins...".
Our love and affection increase the more we experience from each others true feelings, thoughts and worries. Opening up for your partner can be very touching and healing. But it can also trigger deeper patterns of fear and vulnerability.
My task as a counselor is to provide a neutral and competent support and moderation for couples. Together we search for the knot, for common denominators, for connection and for an honest encounter.
This creates moving moments of connection and astonishment ("we thought it would not be possible anymore").
It is a true gift to accompany couples on their way to each other. Whenever I hear the sentence: "Thank you so much, you saved our relationship", I am simply grateful for this wonderful profession.